Marley's Magical Mind

My daughter Marley with my nephew Shawn. What are the realities of autism being genetic.  I am not an expert on genetics or anything like that, but I do know that autism has affected my family.  My 2nd cousin is 16 years old and diagnosed at a very early age with autism. Just recently, I discovered a few photos of my grandfather. In each photo he was not looking at the camera.  It wasn't a situation that he was looking away by accident, it was an intentional 'can't look in your eyes' type of situation.  When I asked my mother about him and his tendencies, she admitted that, now in hindsight, my grandfather had stimming tendencies. He would pace back and forth, just like Marley, and rub his fingertips insistently.  He would do this for a long while, and people around him would notice and comment. My uncles would occasionally tease him endearingly.   I also know that my husbands aunt, although never diagnosed, had severe tendencies leaning towa...

First let me start by saying that not all kids that have SPD are autistic but most autistic kids have SPD. I want to make that clear because one of the ways parents sometimes determine whether something is not right is because their kids are hyper sensitive to sound, light or clothing. In some cases even hypo sensitive to pain.  Marley can cut her finger and it seems like it doesn't even phase her. But if you sing 'Happy Birthday' too loudly, she'll cover her ears and scream 'too loud'.  This is Marley being 'over-processed' by the bright sunlight. She tried to tolerate it because she wanted to go on her swing. Swinging is another form of stimming for her. As in my personal case, I am not Autistic. I was diagnosed with ADHD at 6 years old. At that time it wasn't even called ADHD (I am now 42 years old). It was called short attention span with mild hyperactivity and mild depression. I was reevaluated when I was in my twenties and while th...

Like most parents, I like to observe my child at play. I like to watch her with her imagination going and how she behaves with her dolls and toys. Sometimes my child seems to not play with toys appropriately. There is a difference between using imagination and not using a toy appropriately.  One thing is to use a toy race car as a moon buggy, another thing is to use it as a roller skate. She also loves to hide everything in drawers and cabinets. It drove my mother, her Abuela, crazy !!! She would find her salt shaker in her vitamin drawer...lol!!! Marley likes to take her plush toys, she has a Bowser and Enderman specifically, and wrap them with tape.   She covers them in rolls of regular tape, the kind you would use when wrapping a gift.  I'm still trying to figure out where she came up with this idea.  It would take me about 10 – 15 minutes a to try and unwrap all of her plush toys.   I would explain to her that doing this will ‘break’ her plush to...

My little girl had her first horse show !!! How proud am I ?!  Marley takes horseback riding lessons at Celtic Charms Therapeutic Horsemanship  celticcharms.org  . She has been taking lessons since October 2013. Marley has thrived in this environment and loves being with the horses and the other animals at the barn. She has also made a friend, which considering she has ASD, is a wonderful accomplishment. Hubby and I made some good friends also. Celtic Charms Therapeutic Horsemanship is an organization that only allows individuals with special needs to join. They accept individuals from age 4 and up.   Spiffy !!!   Although the equestrian outfit is not a requirement, I felt it was appropriate for the occasion. I think this makes her feel like she is part of a group with no judgement Before the show started we had to sign in and get her number to wear. She did exhibit quite a bit of anxiety. She doesn't do well in crowds and l...

Wednesday, June 25, 2014 we decided to go to Crayola Experience in Easton, PA.  It was about an hour and a half...unless you follow Google Maps......then it turns to 3 hours !!! But anyway, we got there in one piece, and Marley took it all in stride. If you don't already know, my daughter was diagnosed with Asperger's when she was 4 years old.  Which, since the DSM change, is now considered ASD, high functioning (or level one), and ADHD.  My daughter has sensory issues.  She isn't able to deal with loud noises or lights that are too bright.  When we arrived I could tell that the noise was too much for her.   Luckily, mommy is always prepared!!! Earplugs to the rescue !!! I also brought her sunglasses, but it wasn't overly bright in the building so she didn't need them.   Putting in her earplugs !! As we walked around she realized it wasn't as loud as when we first arrived, so after about 30 minutes, she took her earplugs out, looked at me an...

My greatest accomplishment. So this right here is my greatest accomplishment.  My daughter Marley Rose.  She is 7 years old going on 15.  The girliest girl I have ever met.   She was diagnosed with Autism when she was 4.  My pride and joy, the apple of my eye.  <3

I decided to start this blog in order to post some of my masterpieces...yeah, right... that I have made with my own two hands. I have always enjoyed using my hands to create and build things that were running through my head. Sometimes I get it in the first shot and others, well, not so much. I like to make jewelry, paint furniture and renovate my house.  I have been living in Howell, NJ for 5 years now and loving it.  I am originally from North Bergen, NJ.  I enjoyed my time in good old North Bergen, but it's so close to Manhattan that it now resembles it.  So off to the boondocks, or so my mom likes to think, I went. Howell is not the boondocks...lol... I have a mall 7 minutes away and lots of strip malls on route 9.  Tons of restaurant and a top notch school system.  My daughter is in special education and she is thriving in the Howell school system.  They have a very good Autism program. I will try to post every week with any projects that I st...