Marley's Magical Mind

I wanted to jump on real quick to give an update.  Marley and I have both been undergoing treatment for Lyme disease.  I am happy to say that Marley kicked it's butt !!!! It took two rounds of antibiotics, but she is now feeling much better.  I also was able to defeat Lyme, but the parasite, Babesia, decided to stick around a little longer.  I have been on antibiotics, antimalarial and antiprotozoal medications.  I have been exhausted, to say the least.  The past few weeks have been a little better with the exhaustion but I still have the stomach issues associated with this disease and also the medicines.   I am grateful that my family and I have the means to be able to treat this and live the rest of our lives happy and healthy! I appreciate all the support my family and friends have extended out to us. Sometimes just being able to vent about how awful I felt was enough to alleviate any discomfort I had.   Love to all, Vanessa

First let me start by saying that not all kids that have SPD are autistic but most autistic kids have SPD. I want to make that clear because one of the ways parents sometimes determine whether something is not right is because their kids are hyper sensitive to sound, light or clothing. In some cases even hypo sensitive to pain.  Marley can cut her finger and it seems like it doesn't even phase her. But if you sing 'Happy Birthday' too loudly, she'll cover her ears and scream 'too loud'.  This is Marley being 'over-processed' by the bright sunlight. She tried to tolerate it because she wanted to go on her swing. Swinging is another form of stimming for her. As in my personal case, I am not Autistic. I was diagnosed with ADHD at 6 years old. At that time it wasn't even called ADHD (I am now 42 years old). It was called short attention span with mild hyperactivity and mild depression. I was reevaluated when I was in my twenties and while th...

My little girl had her first horse show !!! How proud am I ?!  Marley takes horseback riding lessons at Celtic Charms Therapeutic Horsemanship  celticcharms.org  . She has been taking lessons since October 2013. Marley has thrived in this environment and loves being with the horses and the other animals at the barn. She has also made a friend, which considering she has ASD, is a wonderful accomplishment. Hubby and I made some good friends also. Celtic Charms Therapeutic Horsemanship is an organization that only allows individuals with special needs to join. They accept individuals from age 4 and up.   Spiffy !!!   Although the equestrian outfit is not a requirement, I felt it was appropriate for the occasion. I think this makes her feel like she is part of a group with no judgement Before the show started we had to sign in and get her number to wear. She did exhibit quite a bit of anxiety. She doesn't do well in crowds and l...

Wednesday, June 25, 2014 we decided to go to Crayola Experience in Easton, PA.  It was about an hour and a half...unless you follow Google Maps......then it turns to 3 hours !!! But anyway, we got there in one piece, and Marley took it all in stride. If you don't already know, my daughter was diagnosed with Asperger's when she was 4 years old.  Which, since the DSM change, is now considered ASD, high functioning (or level one), and ADHD.  My daughter has sensory issues.  She isn't able to deal with loud noises or lights that are too bright.  When we arrived I could tell that the noise was too much for her.   Luckily, mommy is always prepared!!! Earplugs to the rescue !!! I also brought her sunglasses, but it wasn't overly bright in the building so she didn't need them.   Putting in her earplugs !! As we walked around she realized it wasn't as loud as when we first arrived, so after about 30 minutes, she took her earplugs out, looked at me an...